Please Help This is All New to Me

"Hi Dr Love i have big need of your advice! I have gotten myself into a situation regarding love that I didn't expect to happen to me anytime soon. Thing is I myself is open Male Bisexual..." Love expert Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a bi-sexual man who has fallen in love for the first time and is scared to death. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question! AskDrLove.com has been Web's premier FREE Relationship Advice site since 1995.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/please-help-all-new-me

"I have gotten myself into a situation regarding love that I didn't expect to happen to me anytime soon. Thing is I myself is open Male Bisexual..."

Was I Penetrated As a Child

"I’m very sorry that you were violated in this way. I can say with almost 100 percent certainty that you were not penetrated because you said you felt no pain." Couples therapist and relationship exper tDr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a woman who desperately wants to know if she was penetrated at the age of eight. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question! AskDrLove.com has been Web's premier FREE Relationship Advice site since 1995.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/were-you-sexually-penetrated-child

What Really Makes People Happy

How are you feeling these days? Like hiding your head under the pillows (and your money under the mattress) and saying "wake me when it's over"? We've got something a lot better for you than escape.

http://www.oprah.com/spirit/What-Really-Makes-People-Happy-Finding-Happiness

How are you feeling these days? Like hiding your head under the pillows (and your money under the mattress) and saying "wake me when it's over"? We've got something a lot better for you than escape.

Trust Your Instincts

"You need to trust your instincts. If you feel something is fishy, then it is. You said yourself that he has a history of cheating. You need to tell him what you’re telling me." Couples therapist Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a woman who is worried that the man she plans to marry is cheating on her. She is particularly worried because he decided to enter the Navy one month after he asked her to marry him. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question! AskDrLove.com has been Web's premier FREE Relationship Advice site since 1995.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/trust-your-instincts

You need to trust your instincts. If you feel something is fishy, then it is. You said yourself that he has a history of cheating. You need to tell him what you’re telling me.

Women and the Negativity Receptor

Why is it that women pick up on the slightest slur and never hear the good stuff? Criticisms are stored forever; compliments evaporate instantly. "The hormonal surges in the female brain—what Brizendine describes as the rising tide of estrogen and progesterone—make a woman more sensitive to emotional nuance, such as disapproval or rejection. The way you interpret feedback from other people can depend on where you are in your cycle. "Some days the feedback will reinforce your self-confidence," says Brizendine, "and other days it will destroy you."

http://www.oprah.com/omagazine/Why-Women-Have-Low-Self-Esteem-How-to-Feel-More-Confident

Why is it that women pick up on the slightest slur and never hear the good stuff? Criticisms are stored forever; compliments evaporate instantly.

Why Am I Urinating When I Orgasm?

Sex therapist Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a woman who is worried that she is urinating when she orgasms. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question! AskDrLove.com has been Web's premier FREE Relationship Advice site since 1995.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/am-i-urinating-when-i-orgasm

Eliminating Fight Traps: Secret Warfare Tactics Exposed!

In this episode of Ask Dr. Love radio, I talk about Secret Warfare Fight Traps. Conflict and the angry feelings that go with it are normal in intimate relationships. The problem is most people act out their angry feelings using what I call Fight Traps--those dysfunctional fighting tactics that actually add fuel to the fire and create a vicious cycle of more angry feelings, more Fight Traps, and worse fighting. And make no mistake: Secret Warfare Fight Traps are also break-up bait! If you don't lose them, you will lose your relationship! and of course, I'll be taking your calls, so please call in and don't be shy!

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ask-dr-love/2012/04/04/eliminating-fight-traps-ii-secret-warfare-tactics-exposed

Next on Ask Dr Love Radio: Eliminating Fight Traps -- Secret Warfare Tactics Exposed!

Make no mistake, the effects of verbal abuse are lasting and deep!

Verbal Abuse: How To Save Yourself

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. How many women think of that schoolyard rhyme while reeling from a partner's put-downs or angry outbursts? The rhyme's a lie, says Patricia Evans, author of The Verbally Abusive Relationship—the book that helped change Brandy's life. Cruel words can do worse than break bones: They can break your spirit, cripple your confidence, even make you physically ill.

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Verbal-Abuse-How-To-Save-Yourself

The Heart Is Color Blind

Hi, Dr. Love I having a problem. I think of a girl day and night. She treats me very good. I think i fall in love with her. But the problem is she is a Indian and im a chinese. I mind the colour different. Most of my friends are same colour with me, i worry they will laugh at me and others. Can you please give me advise and tell me what should i do. At AskDrLove.com search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question! AskDrLove.com has been Web's premier FREE Relationship Advice site since 1995.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/heart-color-blind

Is Independence The Key To Happiness?

As her marriage came apart, Araina Bond felt—in a word—"clueless." Then she discovered the very thing that had been missing from her relationship: a sense of independence. Cultivating this complete sense of self is vital to your own mental health but also nurturing a positive and non co-dependent relationship.

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/How-to-Be-More-Independent_1

Cultivating this complete sense of self is vital to your own mental health but also nurturing a positive and non co-dependent relationship.

I'm looking forward to tomorrow's show on Fight Traps, and looking forward to your questions, so please call in (9pm EST) .

Ditching Fight Traps: Your Key to Relationship Harmony!

Looking forward to the next AskDrLove Radio Show, when I'm going to delve into the world of Fight Traps--those faulty fighting tactics we all use. I group Fight Traps into two main categories: Open Warfare, which consists of name calling, character insults, attacking, blaming, yelling, etc. and Secret Warfare, which includes guilt tripping, subtle paybacks, holding grudges, and many more.

Both kinds of Fight Traps heat the relationship climate and cause more fighting. Learn how to create relationship harmony by nipping your own Fight Traps in the bud. And also find out how to disarm the Fight Traps laid out by your partner too! Removing Fight Traps from your conflicts is the key to a constructive resolution of your conflicts. Increase your mutual bond -- and even spark some real romance--by Ditching Your Fight Traps!

And of course, I'll be taking your calls! This is a LIVE call in show for you my readers -- and now listeners -- so don't be shy, and feel free to call me with any kind of question you may have. Click here to go to the show's page and bookmark it NOW.