Thursday, February 6, 2014

Why couples in conflict suck at listening



How to Listen with the Ears of Your Heart


Have you ever noticed that couples in conflict suck at listening?

And did you know that on the road to conflict resolution, listening is the superhighway!

In this show, I’m going to reveal why listening is nearly absent in conflicted relationships.

And why so many couples fall into the “deaf pit?”

In a nutshell, here’s how most couples derail...You have a beef. You try to talk to your partner. Your partner doesn’t listen. You get pissed and up the volume, which only makes your partner more deaf.

Now your "discussion" spins totally out of control. No resolution occurs, which leads you to feel terminally ticked off.

Now you’re really stuck. The next time your hot topic comes up, your partner’s dukes are already up, which means you have even less chances of being heard.

And in no time, you have a major vicious cycle on your hands.
But don’t worry. I’m going to show you how to use your ears to steer your relationship out the skids.

It’s easier than you think to learn how to be a good listener. BUT listening doesn’t happen by accident. It’s a skill that needs to be acquired.

So tune in for my listening crash course, and discover how to listen your way to love.

Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love)

If you have miss one of my shows the are available on demand at: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ask-dr-love

No comments:

Post a Comment