Friday, October 25, 2013

How Can I Tell If He Is Really Into Me?

No matter whether you’re young or old, and no matter how much life experience you have, you may still be unclear as to whether the guy you have your eye on is truly interested in you.
I mean, he may be attracted to you. But, let’s face it…a guy can get turned on by a stiff breeze!
So how can you tell if his interest extends beyond mere physical attraction?
Is there a way to tell whether he sees you as a potential soul mate rather than a mere sexual playmate?
How can you know if he is truly interested in YOU...the kind of interest that makes a guy want to know you more deeply, and even create a lifetime of lasting love?
Is there a way to know BEFORE you expose yourself and invest your heart? And, last but not least, is there something you can do to fan the flames of his heart and even spark his interest in you?
The answer to all of these questions is a resounding Yes!!
When you use my free "Is He Interested In Me? Dr. Love’s Guide To Determining If The Guy You’re Interested In Is Really Into You" test. you will be able to if your heart throb’s heart beats for you. This test will also show you how to raise his heartbeat (no, we’re not speaking about other body parts!).
Before you take the test, I want to give you a few general pointers regarding men and mate selection.
Men are hunters by nature. This means that they are instinctively wired to hunt prey and pursue the partners they want. So when a man is interested he will move heaven and earth to get to you.
Yet, paradoxically, research shows that men are afraid of being rejected. This means that even the most confident men will wait for signals from you--what I call Green Lights--that let them know that you are interested in them before they stick their necks out.
In fact, research shows that women are actually the ones to make the first move by sending Green Lights to let a man know that he’s welcome to approach.
And, according to observational research, men only approach women after they have received clear Green Lights!
Green Lights consist of open, approachable body language, praising, admiring and appreciating him, smiling, making eye contact, and offering a body posture that is open and receptive.
Interestingly, studies also show that women’s signals are often so subtle that most men miss these signals altogether! The result is they never approach you because they don’t register your interest.
In conclusion, I want you to register two points: First, since men are wired to pursue, this means that you should never pursue or chase a man who is the object of your interest. Let the male do his job, which is to compete with other males to win you, who he sees as the most desirable of females.


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