Have you ever wondered why you’re single? On Todays' Ask Dr. Love Radio

Join me for a discussion with Aaron Lamont Curry, co-star of Tyler Perry’s House of Payne on TBS who has written This Is Why You’re Single, which provides essential solutions to bring you closer to a healthy and happy relationship.

While marriages are on the decline, it doesn’t mean the right person isn’t out there for you. Aaron’s goal is to help you learn how to break the cycle of choosing the wrong person so you can attract the man or woman that is just right for you.

I know you are going to enjoy Aaron, who is also the recipient of a House of Representative Award for his compassion towards others. His electrifying smile and magnetic spirit touches the lives of others by sharing powerful, enthusiastic messages of encouragement through writing.

Today at 1pm (EST) on Blog Talk Radio

Dr. Jamie Turndorf ( aka Dr. Love)

Why Women Love Bad Boys with guest author Victoria M. Howard

Are you suffering from a bad case of Bad Boy Blues?

Well, if you find yourself attracted to guys who come from the wrong side of the tracks, you may be addicted to bad boys!

So, tune in to this week's show

and receive a much needed dose of Bad Boy therapy!

This week I’ll be talking with Victoria M. Howard, bestselling author of Why Women Love Bad Boys, about why women fall for bad boys, how to recognize the 10 main types of bad boys including commitment phobes, narcissists, cheaters, emotional abusers and 6 more varieties; and, most importantly, how to break your bondage to a bad boy. And, no, I’m not talking about S&M, although a guy who’s heavily into S&M could be yet another bad boy!

Find out why even beautiful and intelligent women fall for the type of men their mothers warned them about...

And why both America's sweetheart Sandra Bullock married rebel Jesse James and multi-talented Whitney Houston fell under the spell of Bad Boy Bobby Brown.

Join me Thursday on Blog Talk Radio  for what I am sure will be a good discussion on how to free yourself from bad boys!

Dr.Jamie Turndorf ( ask Dr. Love)

Doomed-to-be-Single

I am a man in my early twenties who is successful. I cherish the successful relationships I have with friends both at and outside of work. I have always been perceived by others as the 'guy who has it all'. Well, not quite.

I've had a string of unsuccessful relationships with women that has left me pondering the truth about 'lucky in career, unlucky in love'. I must admit, however, that I hold high expectations of people; I'm a go-doer and go-getter, and I expect people to put in the same effort as I do. That works out fine in the workplace, but not in relationships.

The general complaint I have received from women is that I am pushy, that I expect things to be done and problems to be fixed quickly. In turn, they feel 'inadequate' and under pressure to meet my standards, as they put it. Though I never criticize a loved one, I get frustrated by problems that occur repeatedly.

A lot of women I meet seem to have low self esteem. Who has the problem here? They like my confidence, but eventually they feel that we're just on two different levels and hence incompatible. I'm drawn to very feminine qualities. Is it practical to expect a feminine woman who is also confident? Should I act less confident in a relationship?

Sincerely,

doomed-to-be-single

Answer: 

Women are telling you that they feel pressured to meet your standards of perfection, and because of this, they end up feeling inadequate.

I want you to know that the women you date are not the only ones who feel pressured for perfection. I think you've got the bug as well.

I don't think you ever received a sense of true acceptance, and so you keep trying to be Mr. Perfect, hoping to finally feel loved. Listen to how you describe yourself. You sound perfect: handsome, high I.Q., well-read, wealthy... Do you really feel so perfect on the inside?

When somebody tries to convince himself and others how perfect he is, this operation often conceals a hidden sense of inadequacy.

What are you doing to make them feel inadequate? You are extending to them the same standards which I think were rammed down your throat by your parents. (These are the very same standards you continue to ram down your own throat.) And, when you lay these expectations on the women you date, low and behold they feel inadequate. You are coming across as impatient, intolerant, and needing to be right. No wonder they run.

Instead of memorizing behavioral tricks, which, I assure you won't solve the problem, I suggest that you become aware of the voice that drives you in your own head. Put a name on it. And, then talk to it by saying, 'Hi mom, hi dad...expecting me to be perfect again.'

To read more on this subject and my other relationship advice, visit www.askdrlove.com

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It’s Your Fault You’re Single!

It’s Your Fault You’re Single: With Dating Coach Mr. Locario

This week I’ll be interviewing NYC Based Dating Coach, Mr. Locario who says: “It’s your fault that you’re single!”

Mr. Locario also says that finding your ideal partner comes from being open and honest and understanding the opposite sex (if you’re straight that is!.

In the tradition of positive psychology, Mr. Locario encourages people to focus on the little things that are good in their lives and to cultivate gratitude. He also advises people to approach others by asking the positive question: “What’s good in your life?” to inspire happiness in others and kick off a positive connection.

Join me for an Ask Dr Love show that’s going rock with rapper/dating coach Mr. Locario!

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