Showing posts with label skills. Show all posts
Showing posts with label skills. Show all posts

Monday, April 21, 2014

How to Not Get Taken on a Guilt Trip


       Ask Dr Love Radio Show

Tuesday, April 22nd, 12 pm noon (EST) live on Google Hangouts and YouTube

Most of us like to travel, but I don’t know anyone who enjoys being taken on a guilt trip!

Last week, I posted an article on Psychology Today in which I discussed how to not get taken on a guilt trip.

The editors loved the article and featured one of my quotes: “Nobody can take you a guilt trip if you aren’t willing to pack your bags and take the ride.”

Within 24 hours, the article had 4.8K LIKES!

Seeing all the interest in this topic, I knew I had to devote an entire show to the issue.
 
So, join me this Tuesday when I will dissect the anatomy of guilt tripping.

We’ll discuss the many reasons why people lay them, including buried anger, a lack of communication skills and an inability to directly state one’s needs, which can result in the manipulation of others.

We will also be looking at why some people are more willing than others to be taken for a ride. These reasons include having been blamed or abused as a child, having a guilty conscience and feeling deserving of blame, and much more.

Lastly, we’ll be talking about what victims of the trips do, without knowing it, to reward the guilt tripper, which only encourages more of the same.

And, most importantly, I’ll be showing how to put a stop to the trips.

Tune in for what is sure to be a very eye opening and liberating show.



Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Why You Should Make Keeping Cool Your Number One Relationship Rule!

In this Ask Dr. Love show, Dr. Jamie Turndorf reveals how keeping your cool can turn up the heat and increase long term relationship romance and harmony. Ask Dr. Love is a one hour live Internet Radio program. Call in with any of your marriage, relationship, dating, or sex advice questions. AskDrLove.com now offers 1000's of FREE articles on every imaginable relationship issue--or, ask Dr. Love your own question!

http://www.freepressindex.com/why-you-should-make-keeping-cool-your-number-one-relationship-rule-437771.html

Monday, July 2, 2012

Your Relationship IQ: How Smart Are You In Matters of The Heart?

Dr Jamie Turndorf reveals how to test your "Heart Smarts" on the next Ask Dr Love Radio show on July 3rd, at 9pm, on Ask Dr Love Radio. She’ll be offering a sneak preview of her unique Relationship IQ Test which tests how you react to specific relationship challenges and situations.

http://www.widepr.com/press_release/42679/what_s_your_relationship_iq_how_to_measure_your_heart_smarts.html

What’s Your Relationship IQ? How Smart is Your Heart?

On July 3rd, at 9pm, on Ask Dr Love Radio, Dr. Jamie Turndorf will be presenting “What’s Your Relationship IQ? How to Measure Your Heart Smarts.” In this show she’ll be offering a sneak preview of her unique Relationship IQ Test which tests how you react to specific relationship challenges and situations.

http://www.free-press-release.com/news-what-s-your-relationship-iq-how-smart-is-your-heart-1341176271.html

Friday, May 4, 2012

Tired Of Crying

In this question, I help a woman who is desperately trying to understand why all her relationships end abruptly after only three months. Join me as a decipher the mystery that’s causing this pattern.Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question!

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/tired-crying

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Sex or Love?

In this column, I advise a woman who describes sex with her boyfriend as a “grit-your-teeth-and-fake-it” experience. A recent passionate sexual affair with a long time flirty friend has jump started (or--more accurately--HUMP started!) her sex drive. Now she’s fallen for her friend who isn’t talking to her! Join me as I help her pull the covers on this mess. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question! AskDrLove.com has been Web's premier FREE Relationship Advice site since 1995.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/sex-or-love

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Attracted to a Much Older Woman

What happens when a married man finds himself attracted to a woman who is 20 years his senior, fantasizes about her all the time and develops an erection at the mere thought of her? Join me as I discuss with him how to handle his dilemma--not the woman!!Couples therapist Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a man who is sexually and emotionally attracted to an older woman who isn't his wife.Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question!

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/attracted-much-older-woman

Friday, April 27, 2012

Problems in Relationship

Relationship expert Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a young man whose girlfriend stonewalled him when he tried to discuss an issue with her, resulting in an argument that led to a break-up. He asks what he can do to reconcile with his ex.

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/problems-relationship

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Advise -- In a Mess

Relationship expert Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a young woman who wants to know how to handle her boyfriend's Mum who walked in on them while having sex. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question!

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/advise-1

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Love and the Divorced Woman

From The AskDrLove Archives 1996: "I recently began dating a divorced (twice) woman with two kids, one from each marriage. I my self am divorced, but have no kids, I like this girl very much and beleive that a strong relationship could build for us, but I have one hang up and that is the kids, I want kids of my own and like her kids very much. I find this is a road block for me in pushing our relationship farther, can you offer any sugestions? Thanks!"

http://askdrlove.com/content/love-and-divorced-woman

Renowned Psychotherapist Reveals Relationship Harmony Secrets

Dr. Jamie Turndorf, known by two generations of fans as Dr. Love through her award winning Web site AskDrLove.com, will be presenting "How to Resolve Your Conflicts Using My Proven X,Y Formula” on her new “Ask Dr Love Radio” show on April 24th at 9pm EST. Join her as she outlines her six proven techniques for describing your emotions in a way that inspires your lover or spouse want to hear what you’re feeling AND work with you rather than fight you.

http://Dr. Jamie Turndorf, known by two generations of fans as Dr. Love through her award winning Web site AskDrLove.com, will be presenting How to Resolve Your Conflicts Using My Proven X,Y Formula” on her new “Ask Dr Love Radio” show on April 24th at 9pm EST.

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Jealous Junkie

From the AskDrLove.com Archives 1996: I know that my girlfriend isn't cheating on me but I 'm so jealous if she even looks at another guy. Then I start asking her all kinds of questions. I've even started checking up on her and following her. Things have gotten so bad we 're having nightly scream fests over this. Why can't I shake this jealousy?

http://askdrlove.com/content/jealous-junky

Friday, April 20, 2012

My Girlfriend Lied to Me About Her Past

Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of man who wants validation for having opted to break-up with his girlfriend who he discovered lied to him about her sexual past. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question!

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/my-girlfriend-lied-me-about-her-past

Top Relationship Expert Reveals How to Stop Fighting

Dr. Jamie Turndorf, renowned relationship expert and creator of AskDrLove.com, will be presenting "How to Resolve Relationship Conflicts Using My Proven X,Y Formula!” on her “Ask Dr Love Radio" show Tues April 24th at 9pm EST. Join her as she demonstrates six proven techniques for speaking in a way that inspires your lover or spouse want to hear what you’re feeling AND work at achieving a resolution to your gripes.

http://www.free-press-release.com/news-top-relationship-expert-reveals-how-to-stop-fighting-1334879083.html

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Depressed Boyfriend

Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a woman who is worried that her boyfriend's depression is going to ruin their relationship. She asks for advice on how to help him out of his depression. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question!

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/depressed-boyfriend

Saturday, April 14, 2012

How To Speak Your Gripes So Your Partner Wants to Listen

Dr. Jamie Turndorf, renowned relationship expert, author, and creator of AskDrLove.com, will be presenting "How to Speak Your Gripes So Your Partner Wants to Listen and Respond!” on her new radio show “Ask Dr Love Radio” on Tues April 17th at 9pm EST. On this week’s show she’ll be showing that how you communicate what is bothering you will determine whether your partner wants to listen and be responsive to you or not. Then she will demonstrate her six proven pointers for speaking in a way that makes your lover or spouse want to hear what you’re feeling AND work at achieving a resolution to your gripes.

http://www.free-press-release.com/news-how-to-speak-your-gripes-so-your-partner-wants-to-listen-1334417304.html

Friday, April 13, 2012

Learn How to Speak Your Gripes So Your Partner Wants to Listen and Respond!

On Tuesday, April 17, 2012, 9pm EST, Dr. Jamie Turndorf, renowned relationship expert, author, and blogger, known by two generations of fans as Dr. Love through her award winning Web site http://askdrlove.com, will be presenting "How to Speak Your Gripes So Your Partner Wants to Listen and Respond!” on her new radio show “Ask Dr Love Radio.”

http://www.prlog.org/11849252-learn-how-to-speak-your-gripes-so-your-partner-wants-to-listen-and-respond.html

How to Speak Your Gripes So Your Partner Will Want to Listen

Tuesday, April 17th on Ask Dr Love Radio, join Dr. Jamie Turndorf as she shares her six proven pointers for speaking in a way that makes your lover or spouse want to hear what you’re feeling AND work at achieving a resolution to your gripes. When your gripes get gone, you’ll be amazed at how your love life soars!

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ask-dr-love/2012/04/18/how-to-speak-your-gripes-so-your-partner-will-want-to-listen

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Why Fighting Can Actually Be Good For Your Relationship

Conflict in close relationships is not only inevitable, it's essential. Intimacy connects people who are inevitably different—as the saying goes, if two people agree about everything, one of them is superfluous. Conflict is the mechanism by which we set boundaries around these differences, so that each party feels safe with the other.

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/How-Fighting-Can-Be-Good-for-Your-Relationship

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Why Has My Wife Changed after Having Breast Implants?

Relationship expert Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) answers the question of a man whose wife changed after having a breast augmentation operation. Dr. Turndorf explains that a low self-esteem is the cause of the problems. Search thousands of FREE dating, relationship, and sex advice articles on every imaginable issue, or Ask Dr Love your own question!

http://askdrlove.com/drlove-advice/why-has-my-wife-changed-after-having-breast-implants